Sunday, January 8, 2012

Living My Dreams

This morning, as so many other mornings, I walked over to River Cottage to water houseplants, sweep porches, and such. Lured by the serenity and simplicity there, I decided to make a pot of coffee and stay awhile.  Sitting at the kitchen island, one's view through the window is of the Cherry Mansion, the house where I grew up and where I now live with my own family.  Though it's not a mansion by anyone's standards, I was still captured by its beauty and timelessness.  I thought, "How lucky am I to have coffee in such a magic spot: sitting in my fun cottage gazing at my old home that I have loved so much and so long."

As a teacher of gifted and talented students for most of my professional career, my mantra has always been, "Follow your dreams. Be all you can be." Most of them did just that, and it's so rewarding and thrilling when they drop in for a visit and tell about their grownup lives as doctors, lawyers, pharmacists, accountants, archaeologists, fighter pilots, teachers, artists...Well, that list goes on and on.

How ironic then that my dreams led me right back to Savannah, Tennessee, where I grew up.  It was exactly the right decision for me and has allowed me to follow my own dreams and to be the person I think I was meant to be.  You see, my daddy left me a legacy, a responsibility - "Take care of the Cherry Mansion and share it with those who love its history." To some that would have felt like a dreary life sentence, a daunting task. To me it was, and has always been, a gift, a privilege, a passion.  Most days it is just "home", but sometimes I stop to remember its significance in the early history of our community, its steadfastness through good times and hard times, the families who have lived there and loved there, the soldiers who died there fighting for our young country.

It's becoming increasingly harder to keep the roof from leaking, the paint from peeling, the floors from sagging.  We prioritize and do the best we can.  We also try to honor my dad's wishes by opening the house for tours from time to time.  It's such a lot of trouble - hiding everyone's laundry, vacuuming away the pet  hairs, sticking magnolia leaves in all the empty vases.  I always think to myself, "Why did I ever agree to this?" Then the tour begins and the guests fall under the spell of the place. They listen attentively as I once again get carried away with my tales of parties, civil war spies, and dying generals. At the tour's end, they thank me profusely for welcoming them into our home, and I know that my dad was right.  It is a place to be saved, to be cherished, and to be shared.

Friday, January 6, 2012

A River Cottage Christmas

I thought that renovating River Cottage was the most fun I'd ever had.  Decorating the cottage for Christmas was equally exciting.  It was like starting with a blank slate--a chance to create new traditions. Since we had agreed to participate in the annual Christmas by the River home tour on December 3, the decorating process had to start early.  Believe it or not, the tree was fully decorated by Oct. 31, and other holiday touches soon followed.


The cottage was rented over the Thanksgiving weekend and also the weekend before Christmas.   Holiday touches were spread throughout the bedrooms, and our guests seemed to enjoy the festive atmosphere.







In between rentals, our family was able to enjoy several of our own Christmas events at the cottage.  My favorite was a craft morning spent with my cousins, Julie and Lee Ann, making boxwood wreaths and centerpieces.  Not only did we leave with decorations for our homes, but we also had the best time just catching up and spending time together.


I guess the neighbors are wondering when the outdoor decorations are going to come down.  I know it's time, but it just looks so cheerful.Maybe this weekend I will have the heart to say a final goodbye to my River Cottage Christmas.